I couldn't find much on the web about waxing pubic hair for S&M, so here goes. Others may like to shave pubic hair during S&M, I prefer waxing it off. The wax - called "Hair Removal Wax" or "Depliatory Wax" can usually be bought at Chemists or Supermarkets. This wax is not to be confused with Depiliatory Cream, which dissolves the hairs with chemicals.
For those who don't know what this waxing is, the wax (honey like) is heated then smeared over the public hairs. A cloth or clear plastic strip is placed over the wax, patted down for good contact, then pulled briskly off the skin; The hairs, roots and all stay with the wax and the strip. Read more about this on the directions inside the box.
Waxing involves PAIN(!). Waxing, if done by the Mistress involves the Mistress taking something away from the slave, and lasts a few weeks giving the slave something visible to remember it by. Waxing can be seen by some as the Mistress marking her territory on her slave.
Waxing, if done by the slave involves a sense of preparation on the slave's part. The first time a waxed area is seen by the Mistress may be during a session. I found this was very exciting, and a feeling of being "caught out". The Mistress can then act very angry and disgusted at the slave calling him a "Slut" etc. Also, the Mistress can act pleased that the slave has done some preparation, and is therefore slightly more worthy of her attention. A Mistress may order a slave to wax himself before the next session. - Waxing is very representative of being very "submissive/effeminate/demeaned".
My preference, is to do most of the waxing myself, and leave the last bit of pubic hair just above the penis for the Mistress to do during a session. I wax everything from half way up my thighs, to below my belly button. Waxing around the butt is difficult to do yourself. Sometimes I get my Mistress, (not during a session) to do it. I choose to do it outside of a session as it is a time-consuming and a slow process. Usually I set up a mirror on the floor opposite me, and put my legs in the air, with my lower back on the ground and have something behind me to help me bend my back. Sort of in a slouching position on the floor with my legs in the air.
Some dialog for a partially waxed slave:
Slave stands blindfolded, Mistress first notices waxing has been done by slave. "Well what do we have here?" Mistress circles her finger around slave's remaining pubic hair. Mistress then walks behind slave, reaches her hands around him and feels under his testicles and gently strokes all the way up and all over the top of leg area and beside the remaining pubic hair. "You look like a complete SLUT!" Mistress walks around and slaps slave's face. Mistress holds slave's testicles in one hand and says very quietly in slave's ear "Well, not complete .... I am pleased you left the finishing touch - the most fun part for your Mistress. " Mistress guides slave hand to remaing public hair, and strokes it with slave's fingers. "Savour this feeling of running your fingers through you public hair slave. Soon it will be gone. You'll be a totally pubeless whore. Lay down on the bed on your back.
Waxing fits in very well with Cross Dressing