Hello All. My name is ... (well I'd rather not say). I am male and in my twenties, and I live in Melbourne Australia. I have been interested in S&M, B&D all my adult life. (I think I liked it before then, but never did anything with it.) My girlfriend and Mistress is also in her twenties, and we have had over 3 happy years together, and I love being her slave. Recently she told me my ideas and sessions were so good, I should post them on the web for others to see and benefit from. ...I should be modest, so I'll say "Judge for yourself!".
Our interests include, but are not limited to the following: (Note: If you want a complete definition of these things, and safety issues, please do a google search for "S&M dictionary")
Here are links to some sessions I have written.
Tips for writing a session. Sometimes, writing a session can be easy, and ideas just keep flowing, sometimes not. A good way to start is to write down the things you want in the session in point form, like brainstorming. Then try to put them in the order you will want them. Remember that some things will be impossible/impractical if bound, so try to work around this when designing the sequence. Tying and untying often take time, and slow the session down a bit, so I prefer to do that only once in a session. (Note: Never be afraid to improvise during a session too! - This is the best way to discover even more things that work for you!)
I believe all S&M activities can be categorized by a theme. The theme for an S&M activity is chosen based on the main reason it gives pleasure. Here are a few basic themes: pain, humiltiation, servitude, invasive/medical, infantile etc.
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Pain | Servitude | Humiliation | Invasive | ||
| Boot Licking | ||||||
| Butt Licking | ||||||
| CBT | ||||||
| Testicle Kicking | ||||||
| Nipple Torture | ||||||
| Face Slapping | ||||||
| Spanking | ||||||
| Caning | ||||||
| Strap-on Anal Sex | ||||||
| Butt-Plugging | ||||||
| Catheters | ||||||
| Golden Showers | ||||||
Although some activities, their theme may vary depending on how it is done or the individual. E.G. An over the knee spanking may be enjoyed mainly for the humiliation for some, spanking harder can make it more about the pain.
When you have categorized your session activities, list them so that no two activities of the same theme are one after the other. I often like to start a session with boot licking, which is Humiliation, so a sequence of activities may be
Use the above as a starting point. - As a guide to follow... don't forget to improvise!